You cant expect everyone to take over all of your Duties and blow sugar up your Behind Just because your husband is deployed. I know how much it sucks to be alone ( esp with kids) BUT you cant take advantage of others like that'!. I have to say tho that i am TRULY blessed with wonderful friends that DO help me carry my groceries up to the second floor or watch my kids etc and i REALLY appreciate all they do for me BUT i am well capable to do things on my own!. I would NEVER expect anyone to do anything for me because my husband is deployed!.
I like this post :) i have seen so many here as well that go to the registration office and think it's their turn faster because their husband is deployed. Does it make you disabled just because the husband is gone?! And it is funny, cuz the husband can be home but on a shift where you're alone as well and then nobody complains. i seriously don't get it. I don't even take those offers we get on base here, because it would feel awkward that i get things cheaper because my husband is gone which is stupid, they should make thinsg cheaper for ppl with more than one child, that would save them some money. Groceries can be heavy but i never bought so much that i couldn't deal with it by myself. i think the only time i say that it might be the deployment, is when i am sad and depressed and i really don't have a reason for it. And even THEN it feels weird to say : oH im in a poopy mood, because hubby is gone, because i am in poopy moods when he is home as well lmao. Unbelievable how annoying some ppl can be.
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