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Have you ever felt like an outkast?.......... do you think its OK for others to treat anyone like an outkast just because of their heritage, gender, religion or their Job?.
Oh i have felt like that many times. That feeling is horrible!!! The newest i can tell you guys is: i am german and over a year ago i married my sweetie, but he is american.... i got so many negative reactions to that (all from germans) they called me names and some of my "friends" started hating on me as well. People can be so cruel and rude, its not even funny. There was a situation where i had to pay rent for our old apt. and the lady on the phone YELLED at me (after i explained her the whole situation) and that wasn't acceptable to me so i asked her what her freaking problem is.. and there she went telling me that she is sick of all the americans coming to germany, taking jobs and houses etc... i was like OH REALLY? and wanted to start giving her my 2 cent.... she HUNG UP on me... i drove there and went there in person. i bet she never wanted to make me THAT mad... i literally freaked out on her and after 2 ppl came in there to calm me down i explained that the american i married is not one of those that take jobs and houses... and that maybe they should quit being so racist... that was a very hurtful experience... and at the very beginning of our marriage. TODAY i smile about stupid people... i don't freak out anymore... i don't need to explain them why my husband is different. if they don't like him, thats their problem and if someone means to treat me like an outcast. GO FOR it, i can deal with it... have been all my life! but to answer your question: it would NEVER be ok to treat someone like that. Even though i say i am so tough about it... it still hurts and makes me sad... Thank you for reading :)
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Oh i have felt like that many times. That feeling is horrible!!! The newest i can tell you guys is:
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but to answer your question: it would NEVER be ok to treat someone like that. Even though i say i am so tough about it... it still hurts and makes me sad... Thank you for reading :)